How to Have an Awesome Work Ethic

By Shazad

“We all can be masters at our craft, but you have to make a choice. What I mean by that is, there are inherent sacrifices that come along with that. Family time, hanging out with friends, being a great friend, being a great son, nephew, whatever the case may be. There are sacrifices that come along with making that decision.” Kobe Bryant - Championship NBA player for LA Lakers

Some people are born with lots of talent and most of the rest just work hard at something. That thing they have chosen involves passion, persistence and a positive mindset to achieve despite not having the most talent at something. The late great basketball player, Kobe Bryant, demonstrated what is possible in basketball and life by working harder than everyone else. He made basketball his craft and studied it from various angles. He made sure he learned from the best in the game whether they were current players or retired ones.

When a driven person invests time and energy into something important, they are bound to be successful because it’s simply not possible to focus on something in a sincere way without getting the benefits of achieving greatness. It will take a lot of work, sacrifices and thick skin to tolerate all the negative people you will encounter on your journey but it’s worth it in the end. Whatever you want to achieve can be yours if you commit to an Awesome Work Ethic.

Action Steps:

  1. Ask yourself, are you willing to work harder than everyone on your team? Raise your game until you are hardest worker at whatever task you are doing.

  2. Are you committed to being the best in whatever you are doing? Rate your current performance in life on scale of 10. How can you get to a 10 in all the things that matter to you?

  3. Look at your weekly schedule and note how many days you have dedicated to personal excellence in something. If you really want something, put it in your calendar!

  4. Focus on excellence each day in whatever you are doing. Those days of excellence will add up to Awesome results.

How To Improve Yourself Rapidly In One Week

By Ahsan 

“Took this dream and made it mine”⎯from the song: Untouchable, by DMX

“The losing stops now”⎯from the movie: Coach Carter starring Samuel Jackson

As I write this article, it is a Saturday. In two days, Monday arrives, and it's off to the races again.

When I think about how my work week went last week, I think to myself I could have been a bit more productive. 

Does that ever happen to you?

I left my office on Friday, having prepared for upcoming meetings this week and writing out a new To-Do list. I think I did an excellent job, but I just came across a better idea that I intend to implement on Monday.

Here it is:

If I want to make noticeable and rapid improvements, I need to start a weekly improvement program. 

Simple. End of story.

Here is how I will do it. 

On Monday, before I begin checking my email and bouncing to the first thing on my To-Do list, I will ask myself how my previous week went and what I can do better this week. I will write that down in a notebook and make it a weekly habit to be done every Monday Morning.

There are two benefits to doing this:

1.Because it is weekly, I will not wake up three months later, feeling like I am not getting ahead or spinning my wheels. I think you might know what I mean. 

We all implement a great idea and then let it go to the wayside because we get busy with "stuff." Weekly check-ins will keep good intentions⎯honest and tracked.

2.This exercise of asking what I can do better this week will spark my "creative thought machine." I intend to write whatever pops into my head and refine the list later. In fact, I am sure some new innovative ideas will come to mind because I am asking myself a question that demands a new way of thinking. 

Everything can be done better. We are witness to this phenomenon; otherwise, we would all still be sitting around fires at night and hunting for food with wooden spears during the day.

Who knows how much more money I will make and increased sense of relaxation and accomplishment I will gain from doing this!

My goal is to do this for the rest of 2020 and see how it works out. 

How about you? What did you do last week? What can you do better this week?

Action Steps:

  1. Get a Notebook; a nice one that shows respect to your new effort.

  2. Carve out time on Monday Morning: 15 minutes well spent can create time as you become more focused on doing things that matter.

  3. Ask and think in terms of: better, improvements, big wins, win-win and increased service/value (this automatically brings in the money) and lower stress and anxiety (this will pay dividends in health)

  4. Commit to this new technique of activating “Betterfication” for at least 12 weeks to see if it makes any difference in your life.

  5. If it does, drop us a line, we want to hear what happened and how it changed things for you.

  6. To focus yourself: Ask, what am I currently doing to improve results at work and play?


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Doing vs Being

By Shazad

Many people think they “have to do” something or other. They don’t realize that they get to BE or become something else through their thoughts, words, and actions. When you realize that each moment is a step on the journey of the person you become, you have more power. You begin to see your daily routines differently. Your choices matter more and you will hopefully make wiser decisions to help you on your journey.

Don’t think of what you have to do today or this year. Think instead of what kind of person you want to become and gradually, that’s the transformation you will see happening. That will make your habits more likely to stick and will mean all the difference in the world.

Why The Year 2020 Is Going To Be Hard

Don't you love it when you wake up, and you feel like a million dollars?

How about when your first cup of tea or coffee tastes just perfect? Or how about that feeling when you get a new client, make a new sale or nail a presentation at work? 

Personally, I love it when someone notices how good I look. 

If only every day could be this way!

Well? How about you? 

Don’t you enjoy life more when it is going your way? 

When people around you are behaving the way they should? When everything you touch turns into gold?

Especially when this happens every day? 

Do you agree that life should be easy and not hard?

But sometimes it seems like life is hard and brutish, nasty and monotonous. One day things are up, and the next, they are sideways. What about days that everything that could go wrong, go very wrong? Life is not fair! Why does everything have to be so damn hard?

Do you have the answer?

May I offer one that could change your outlook on life forever? After learning this insight, you may well see life as it is for the first time and be able to relax into life truly.

Here it is: Life is not supposed to be easy.

That’s it. 

Stop wondering or complaining. All of nature and your own experience and observation prove that life is not supposed to be easy.

An orchard of mango trees needs to be planned and cultivated. A business will go through ups and downs even if the owner is a millionaire. People with healthy and slim physiques need to stick to their plan over years⎯not 90 days. 

And on the other hand, a storm can wipe out a town in a few minutes with innocent people in it. The survivors rally and rebuild. They were strong in spirit and mind. The mentally weak among them become resentful of life and stop living even though they are alive.

Life is a trial as much as it is an open book test. You will have wins and losses. Joys and pain. Ups and downs. The difference will be from this day forward, it will not be a surprise. 

Life is not supposed to be easy. 

And 2020, like any year before it or after it, will not be easy. Those who are strong both in spirit and mentally will rally. You are one of them. 

Here is your action plan for 2020: 

  1. Please write down your goals that you must achieve this year and resolve to get them done regardless of how hard things get in life.

  1. The next time one of your friends or relatives goes through a tough time in life, remind them that life is not supposed to be easy.

  1. Share this article with them if you please.

All the best to you in 2020 and beyond. May you be strong, both in spirit and mind.

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The Secret Behind Getting Rich

By Ahsan

As the new decade begins, you might like to ask who will get rich in the next ten years?

Who among your friends, relatives or co-workers will strike it rich?

How will they do it?

What about you? 

Will you get rich?

Perhaps, all we need to do is watch a movie that reveals a Secret. Another possibility is that rich people are in possession of some magic formula.  It could also be that they have some inside information that is passed down to them behind closed doors?

That may be; however, for the rest of us regular folks,  the secret lies in knowing four fundamental truths that I shall reveal immediately without further suspense. 

Ready? 

Really, ready?

First and foremost, you should paint a picture of your goal on the canvass of your mind. Vividly imagine your new business or professional goal as though it is done. See yourself in the picture, cashing big cheques and standing on a stage receiving an award for extraordinary achievement.

Hold the image in your mind and make it a habit to think about it several times a day.

A useful tool will be to write down the description of your goal on the back of a business card, put it in your wallet, purse or bathroom mirror and look at it often.  

Our mind works very well when you give it a picture. Imagination has, in it, a very creative force.

Use the tools of your mind like an artist uses the tools of her trade; a brush, some paint and a canvass creating a picture that is admired by thousands of people. Your tools are visualization, repetition of thoughts held with detail, the revivification of positive past experiences and faith that your vision will manifest. This will cause your mind to make you aware of the things you need to implement to build your vision into reality.

Second, you must act on your intentions. Most people that are introduced to this whole conceive, believe and achieve philosophy are ignoring the most critical step⎯personal action. Nothing will happen by sitting in a corner, doing affirmations and praying day and night. You have to get out there and act. Act with faith, work with purpose and be prepared to be knocked down trying.

Grand plans require hard work.

Thought and action must go hand in hand. You can’t just think and manifest.

Furthermore, the nature of your action should start today

Now not later. Later may never come or look safe or be free of complications. Waiting creates inertia, second thoughts, and putting things back on the shelf. Act now and figure it out as you go. Apply systematic and intelligent action that is done daily without fail.

Thirdly, whatever business you intend to bring into reality should be based on giving your customer value. If you can figure out how to provide more value than your customer traditionally gets from others, you will have a long-term and robust business. The best companies in the world create value and grow because of this simple rule.

Here is the final “secret” ingredient. Pray to your Creator for what you visualize to come into reality. Pray with faith and purpose and be in a state of gratitude. Your level of gratitude will bring you closer to your Creator in spirit and mind. When you connect more closely with the Source of all things the power of creation flows to you and through you and starts the process of bringing your vision into reality. This will ultimately cause things and events to happen in your favour as if by magic. 

Your faith will strengthen and your purpose will be refueled. You will become unstoppable. 

If you follow these instructions, don’t be surprised if you become rich in the coming decade. 

Have a clear vision; take action on your vision without delay; add value to your customer’s life and pray for success!
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60 Awesome Life Lessons Learned In 50 Years

By Ahsan

I was inspired by Shazad, who told me I ought to write out 50 life lessons to correspond with my 50th trip around the Sun. I ended up with 60 for good measure and hope that you might find a few of them to be useful to you.  

  1. Childhood adversity can shape you to be a winner. 

  2. Words you use profoundly affect how you perform in life.

  3. Seeing yourself doing things well in your mind’s eye translates into you performing well in real life. 

  4. Have a few good friends that you stay in touch with at least every two weeks. A good friend makes life that much more happy.

  5. Encourage others to be their best. Your words may be the only encouragement they hear. 

  6. Drink tea to relax and enjoy the fact that you have a mug, a teabag, milk, a kettle, clean water, a comfy chair and a place you call home. Be thankful and count your blessings. Watch your happiness increase.

  7. Focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses, especially when you intend to excel in life.

  8. Eat processed foods only once every 15 days. Avoid sugar and seed oils. 

  9. Copy the habits and mindset of successful people. They may be famous or even your Mom. 

  10. Go and meet successful people and ask them good questions. 

  11. Be patient and hard working. Rome and yourself were not built in a day. Work hard while others play and live a life less ordinary. 

  12. Watch what you are saying in public. Others are listening. 

  13. Build your own brand. Decide what it is and devote a lifetime to its reputation. 

  14. Be not afraid to do things or of things. Be brave and know you have or can develop skills to handle anything. 

  15. Read every day so that you get smarter on a subject that captures your fancy. For example, diet and fitness, Dobermans, watches, religion, investing, personal development. 

  16. Practice writing and public speaking, so you sharpen these skills. Become a communicator and a leader.

  17. Look at people who have messed up their lives and don’t do what they do. 

  18. Follow good morals and rules found in your religious beliefs. They are designed to give you a life that shields you from suffering and unneeded complications. 

  19. Speak to people with respect, and you will get respected back.

  20. Watch movies and read stories that inspire you to live your life with awesomeness. 

  21. Take courses to improve your self and your earning abilities. 

  22. Make a plan to achieve your goals. Know why your goals are important to you. 

  23. Write down goals to achieve over the next six months and act on them.

  24. Get someone to be your accountability coach. Recruit your friend or spouse. You need to report your progress on your goals once every week for the rest of your life. 

  25. Friends are a gift of heaven. Cherish your friends and support them back. 

  26. Honesty is the only policy. Play the long game. Others will notice. 

  27. Mind your own business means to compete only against yourself.

  28. Wish others more success and watch your success blossom. 

  29. Prayer in your quiet and private time is the same as meditating. 

  30. Your mind has two parts: the horse and the rider. The rider is your conscious mind, and your unconscious mind is the horse. The horse does the will of the rider. A good rider leads the horse. Be a good rider.

  31. Expect good things to happen to you. Your mind will seek those things just as a magnet attracts iron. 

  32. Don't trash talk to anyone, especially when they are not in your presence. You will cheapen yourself and only convince spineless listeners.

  33. Take care of your body. You pay for the sins of youth in your older years. 

  34. Go for a daily walk to get exercise, keep your back pain-free, stave off stress, anxieties and insomnia. A good walk is an elixir for what ails you.

  35. Stop scaring yourself. Don’t imagine things to be worse than they are. If they turn out bad, you will respond gracefully and not react fearfully. 

  36. Be on time by arriving 15 minutes early. Doing this will make you relaxed and permit relaxed thinking and performance.

  37. Family time is important. We are so busy that we have to make it happen. Stay in on a Saturday night and chat about your lives instead of chatting over digital devices while you're on the go.

  38. Don’t lose your temper. When you do, you always wish you didn’t. It’s worth the effort. 

  39. Don’t keep good information or ideas to yourself. Share freely and let others benefit too. 

  40. Adopt an abundance mentality and be optimistic. Every small thinker and pessimistic person lives below their potential. 

  41. There is a proper time in life to do certain things, so do them while you can. Trying to take up tennis when your knees are worn out is one example.

  42. Invest your money early in life and monthly, so it grows through compounding.

  43. Make a plan to be debt-free. Spend less than you make. 

  44. Think of ways to increase your income. Ask for a raise by helping your company with an idea to make even more revenue or if you own a business, by selling more products, or by increasing your client base or by selling larger ticket items. 

  45. Watch your habits and beliefs. Both will influence the outcomes in your life. They control you like a software program. 

  46. Buy fewer things but buy higher quality, so you enjoy what you buy for a long time.

  47. Give to charity and witness your own prosperity take off. 

  48. Live in the moment and enjoy your life. It is not a rehearsal. 

  49. The prime time of your life is now. Tomorrow is not promised to anyone.

  50. Remember, you will die. So rather than get gloomy, use this to motivate yourself to really go for it. Live life to the fullest.

  51. Think highly of yourself. Your self-image and esteem for yourself will make or break you. 

  52. Mindset is not everything; it is the only thing — all greatness within lies upon the bedrock of a solid mindset.

  53. Know your purpose for living. This will give you the courage to beat all obstacles and setbacks.

  54. Failing is good as long as you see it as feedback to make a comeback and change your direction. 

  55. Avoid negativity. This comes in the form of people, the evening news, ideas or surroundings. 

  56. Organize your time in blocks. This will help you to get things done. Do all your critical activities in time blocks and don't skip back and forth between unrelated tasks.

  57. Think about your future and flourish. Think about your past and perish. 

  58. Never give up. Tomorrow has in it something miraculous for you. Find it. 

  59. Affirmations work. The three most powerful to use are: I am..., I choose to...I will have...

  60. This is your life. Live it according to your own book.

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Use All Your Gears

By Shazad

The way the average car moves is by having an engine that burns some kind of fuel combined with a transmission which applies the power generated by the engine to the 4 wheels. Modern day transmissions have many gears ranging from 5-8 speeds in total. At lower speed, the car is in lower gear but to get to higher speeds, the transmission needs to shift into higher gears.

People are like cars in that we are sometimes going fast and sometimes at medium speed or just getting started in lower gear. This is as it should be. We need to be cycling through our gears in life rather than being stuck in the lower gears or always roaring down the road of life in high gear. Different people will have a different number of gears so no one is going to ‘drive’ the same way in life. One thing that we all have in common is that we all have a slow, medium and fast mode which means we can and should be ‘shifting’ up and down. Like a car, we need to take a rest from cruising at high speeds. Likewise, we need to regularly go into higher gears to cruise the highway to avoid burning out the transmission in stop and go traffic of daily life.

No one can stay in low gear in life and enjoy the experience. We all like to go into high gear and experience a rush or excitement but we can’t live in that mode either. We have to be shifting through the various speeds available in each of us to truly experience all of life. Applying too little power or too much power all the time is not good for people or cars. When you use all your ‘gears’ on a regular basis, you experience the best ride of your life. Buckle Up and drive safely!

Action Steps:

  1. Once a week, slow things down and cut out todo’s or events in your calendar. Just pay attention to your environment and breathing throughout the day.

  2. Take 2 Weeks to unplug and travel each year. Delegate your responsibilities before you leave home and just enjoy the time away from daily routines of life.

  3. Be prepared to work a few longer hour days each month to push yourself into higher gear of productivity and completion.

  4. Practice 10 minutes of mindfulness at the end of workday. This can be on Train/Bus as you travel home. Try to mentally ‘park’ your work thoughts and get ready for home life so you can successfully make the transition when you step into your home.

  5. Wake up extra early a few days a week and exercise for 30 minutes before you start you day. Get everyone moving and start visualizing how successful your day will be.

How To Be The Michael Jordan Of Positive Thinking And Crush Everyone Else

By Ahsan

Can I ask you a trick question?

What part of the concept “Positive Thinking” is more important: Is it the positive aspect or the thinking part?

Don’t rush to give the answer. Think. Really Think.

Okay…so what is your answer? Is it positive, or is it thinking?

Here is the answer: it’s thinking. The foundation of success that positive thinking can deliver is rooted in thinking. All the good things that happen to you and all the bad things that happen to you can be directly traced back to your thinking. Your thinking affects your emotions, which then affect your actions. Right actions lead to good outcomes. Good outcomes are, therefore, traceable to your thinking.

As U.S. President Thomas Jefferson said,

“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude (read thinking) from achieving his goal; nothing on Earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude."

We spend a lot of time thinking.

Whenever we are pursuing a goal⎯our thinking makes it happen. The interesting thing is that our thinking is often not serving us well, and when that happens, our goals get sidetracked. Thoughts of doubt or fear can creep in. Sometimes it’s thoughts of failing or the enormity of the commitment that is the culprit. However, when we really want to do something, not only do we find a way, we think ourselves into doing it.

Achieving a big important goal is not easy. But what if you start to focus on your thinking to trigger your goals into reality?

When you think you can, you can, and when you think you can't….so, don't box yourself into some limited definition of what you can accomplish.

Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, even if that person is yourself.

Get quiet with yourself and look inward. Have a talk with yourself and start by encouraging yourself to take supreme command of your thinking to create the circumstances you want.

Yes. There are several other components to achieving your goals, like being positive. The start of it all will be in your thinking. So make it count by organizing your mind towards the best thinking possible and positively pursue that as a goal!

Hey, just remember, Michael Jordan did not give up when his High School Coach cut him from the Varsity Team.

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Ask Yourself, What Am I Missing?

By Shazad

Whenever I get something wrong or face a difficult problem, I ask myself this question, “What Am I Missing?”. I make sure I explore what I know and also what I don’t know.  Where is the key info I need to solve the issue?  Sometimes it is a set of things and not one “magic” bullet or a “smoking gun” that is obvious.  

By frequently asking ourselves “What am I missing?” We get confidence in what we actually know and an opportunity to get more info.  This is the remedy for over confidence and impulsive decision making.

Take the time to make sure you have enough clarity and avoid the regret of making an uninformed decision. You’ll be glad you did!

Seeing The Future Is The Best Thing To Learn This Year

By Ahsan

Sometimes I wish I had a crystal ball. Wouldn’t it be nice to know what your future holds?

2020 is just days away, but what will it be like?

If you think about it, humans crave stability and safety and trying to keep things in life predictable.

How do we do it? The main problem is that we don’t have a crystal ball and seeing around corners is beyond human capacity!

Life is sometimes like a road trip.

Imagine you are off for a road trip from your hometown to another city just two days away. Now imagine the year is 1985, no internet, GPS or Satellite to guide you. All you know is that there are roads to travel, exits to take and hotels and restaurants along the way.

As you pack the car, you think to yourself, what if I get a flat tire in the middle of nowhere? What if I get lost? All possible scenarios even in 2020. You head out anyway by overriding the thought and thinking positive. Along the way, an interesting thing happens….

First of all, your paper map gives you enough confidence about what route to take but not what each road will look like? Some roads are pretty straight, others have pot-holes, and others have curves and bends that you can't see beyond.

It's hard to see around the bend, isn't it? But after driving for hours in such situations, you notice that all you need to see is what you can ahead of you and that as you come through the curve, you begin to see what is ahead of you again.

In other words, not seeing the entire road ahead is not a problem if you focus on what is in front of you and let the rest reveal itself as you get closer. You just need to see far enough ahead and then steer in the right direction after that. And that is life!

We may like to know what tomorrow holds, but soon enough tomorrow arrives, and we flow with the next curve or bend. What other reality or choice do we have? No need to stress about tomorrow or what it may bring!

Get it? Got it? Now don’t forget it!

Here is your Action Plan:

Someone smart said the best way to build your future is to design it.

Based on that idea, sit down and think about a goal that you have like earning more money or getting fit.

Now make a plan and follow it. It’s that simple.

Just don’t get caught up in the thought about seeing everything clearly as you would on a straight road. Your road will and must have curves and bends.

Just start the ignition, follow your plan and focus on what’s ahead.

When your day is done, be honest with yourself about your efforts and start all over again tomorrow.

You Got This!

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Why Everyone needs Vision, Value and Mission statements

By Shazad

Most Companies, countries and even some families have them. We see them written on walls and websites as well as slide decks. I’m talking about Vision, Values and Mission statements. These are 3 different but related things. We should have all 3 of these for our personal lives to transform how we think, act and speak.

A Vision is something to strive for that pulls us toward SOMETHING GREATER. A vision is something that is always out of our grasp but the seeking of which drives a person, nation or company towards every constant improvement.

Values define HOW we behave as we move forward towards our Vision. We need Values to articulate what our core beliefs are and the code of conduct we live by. Writing down 2 to 5 Values and reviewing them on regular basis can be enough to make sure our thoughts, words and actions are aligned with our authentic self.

A Mission is a time-stamped challenging goal we hope to achieve. It can take many months or years to achieve and is aligned with our Vision. Missions can be determined by external factors as well as originating from our internal Values. Mission Statements help a person or a company organize its resources to concentrate efforts towards something significant that you can be proud of when it is achieved. Having Missions ensures there is movement in life towards the achievement of something worth doing. Missions can be very motivating and inspire growth in individuals and nations such as the race to land a person on the Moon and safely return them to Earth.

If you want to truly be inspired and live according to your true principles, you also need to define your Vision, Value and Mission statements.

Action Steps:

  1. Define what your personal VISION is for your life and write it down. Review it often and refine it as needed each year.

  2. Define what your VALUES are and why they are important to you. Have 3-5 core values and write them out. Review these every week if not daily, to remind you to align your actions with those values.

  3. Create at least one MISSION statement for the next 6-12 Months and write out some details on the major steps to achieving this Mission. Review your Mission Statement every day and refine it as needed to get you closer to achieving it.

HOPE and How To Win At Life When It Gets Thorny!

By Ahsan

“He who has hope has everything”.⎯unknown

Life is not all a bed of roses. Even if it was, you could expect that there will be the occasional thorn to deal with.

The beauty of life is that it delivers an experience. How we experience our lives is something we can work on. Let us accept the truth in the concept of handling life with skills that are practiced. Please pause and let that sink in. Knowledge is one thing; practicing what you know makes all the difference. Would you agree?

You can know how to get healthy, but actually doing the work is how you get fit. That means daily effort: eating well, prioritizing restful sleep, drinking lots of water, doing some exercise for 30 minutes, lowering stress and getting social with real humans, live….face to face!

The challenge is that we do not truly prioritize this mindset. You can win at life if you start thinking about doing so as an actual goal. If it is a real goal, you will begin to think of how you can win and naturally start going about doing it. Do your homework!

In your research, you may come across the concept of having hope vs. giving up hope.

The magnitude of the effect of having hope is not to be underestimated. It can really help to deal with life and the occasional thorns.

Having hope, in my opinion, boils down to having a mindset and personal confidence and belief that you can put your life back together again. A lot of anxiety and sleepless nights could be avoided if people just focused on their incredible ability to put their lives back together again⎯because they have the skills to do so. Putting your life back together should it go to naught is a significant concept to etch into your mind.

Our minds can work against us. Many aspects of our minds do not work the way that we want. So…what can we do? WE need to understand our mind's biases and use counter thoughts that enable us to feel more hopeful. Talk back to negative thinking, for example. The more hopeful you are, the more you will enjoy life.

Remember that HOPE stands for HOLD ON POSSIBILITIES EXIST!

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What Did I Ever Do To Deserve This?

By Shazad

I was born and lived past the age of 5. Many babies often die before this age, in the developing world. My parents loved me and raised me for my entire childhood. They are both alive and healthy today and live very close to me. Many have lost one or both parents or live at a great distance from their parents.

What did I do to get this blessing?

I grew up with few material things and no luxuries. We had enough to be happy as a middle-class family. Everyone worked in my house when I started school but we all made it through. There was enough food, shelter, clothing, and Love. Many others lose one or more of these things and feel broken inside.

What did I do to receive this good foundation?

I was able to attend the best University in Canada according to International rankings. I lived in the same city so I didn’t have to move to another town and pay those fees. I worked part-time jobs and got Student Loans to finish my degree in Computer Science which I use in my job today. Many others don’t have a nearby University or simply can’t afford to attend it, much less complete a degree.

What did I do to have the privilege of this kind of education?

I found a job in IT with great companies and great colleagues who supported, trained and helped me grow. Many people graduate without finding some meaningful work that uses their education and talents to any significant degree.

What did I do to have so many good people and companies around me?

I am married to a wonderful lady who is smart, confident and capable of doing hard things with grace. We work together to make things better for everyone.

I am living a life I did not imagine. I could not imagine all of these blessings, good people and circumstances. I don’t deserve the things above but I have them. This is why I try to be the best person I can be and give thanks every day for my Awesome Life!

I thank the Creator for all the wonderful things I have been blessed with.

Why Do We Study History and Ancient Philosophy?

By Shazad

“The more you know of your history, the more liberated you are.” Maya Angelou

In this very modern world with Internet access everywhere and scientific discoveries happening all the time, why bother with History and Philosophy? What’s the point of knowing what happened in the past or what leaders from 1000+ years ago thought about living, working and leisure?

“Employ your time in improving yourself by other men's writings, so that you shall gain easily what others have labored hard for.” Socrates

I believe it’s more important now than ever before. There are so many distractions and stimuli for everyone in the modern world. Many people feel overwhelmed and struggle to make sense of life while having constant stress at work and less time for rest. The truth I have realized is that every generation and every people have gone through their own struggles of some kind. By studying the people of the past and the context they lived in, we can derive lessons for our own life. Whether it’s the stoicism of Seneca and Marcus Aurelius or the wisdom of spiritual leaders like Buddha, Jesus, Prophet Muhammad [PBUH] or others, there’s something for all of us to reflect on. Hardship in one’s personal life, societal changes, dramatical political changes, and business cycles have happened before. These are part of a common human story. The many people who came before us have developed some tools and templates for thinking that we can consider. Perhaps our modern-day work stress and leadership issues have answers in Meditations by the ancient Roman Emperor, Marcus Aurelius. It’s possible that we can heal relationship issues by reflecting on scriptural verses.

“I have just three things to teach: simplicity, patience, compassion. These three are your greatest treasures.” Lao Tzu

There is so much information out there today and we owe it to our selves to explore the many great works of past leaders, sages and teachers. Only then can we truly understand what our current human potential can be by using all the available tools from the past and present leaders. But remember, it’s not enough to just read and study the past. We must use that knowledge by putting good ideas and relevant wisdom into action. When we do, I believe we will be more fulfilled, capable and wiser people. How Awesome is that?!

“…those who walk on the earth in a dignified manner, and when the ignorant address them, they say, ‘Peace!’” Holy Quran 25:64

Do You Have Enough CASH?

By Ahsan

“It’s hard to beat a person who never gives up.” Babe Ruth

Have you ever looked at doing something new and audacious but talked yourself out of it?

Perhaps you felt it was too complicated, or you said something to yourself like: "I don't have the experience or credentials to do that…no one will take me seriously ...it won't work!"

Meanwhile, you find out that someone did exactly what you wanted to do⎯with half the smarts, experience and good looks that you have!

What’s going on here?

In terms of how they did it, one word encapsulates the thing they employed that you likely forgot: CONFIDENCE. Another word for confidence is courage.

To achieve anything in life, you need to take that first step. Taking the step in the first place makes all the difference! Confidence is the mother of all achievement. It gives birth to all other qualities, including courage, belief, desire, motivation, learning, mastery, resilience and persistence, to name a few.

A boxer without confidence gets knocked out. In fact, if you meet a professional boxer you might think they are pompous and conceited while the truth is they are actually supremely confident. Without confidence, the journey stays very local. You don't go far. You may also get knocked out!

How you look at life makes for how life treats you. If you see the best in others, your social interactions will be happier. If you are optimistic, you will try to see the best in a bad situation. If you think about the possibilities of the future, your life will take on momentum. Do all this with a mindset of confidence.

If you think like a confident winner, you will dominate the field!

Now that you agree that having confidence is paramount to achieving anything in life let's think about taking ACTION.

I have found that having an action plan matters because it provides a map to the treasure. When you have a goal, start making a plan of what you need to do. Let the plan be about taking cues from others that are achieving what you want. Follow the path of others that have gone before you. Study them, take them to lunch and make good notes.

And be ready to change course. When we begin acting on the plan, we can find roadblocks and disappointments, but we should not be dismayed. We need to confidently moor in the direction of our goal by changing the action plan.

Action plans that have high levels of success need to be executed within the framework of a SYSTEM.

Let's take the goal of getting healthy: the action plan could be as obtuse as I will start eating healthy and go to the gym or….it could be systematized with more concrete actions that deliver more robust and predictable results.

Instead of pie in the sky, random actions use a system that is made up of actions, for example:

After eating dinner go exercise for at least 30 minutes. When eating at a restaurant, eat the least processed food by studying the menu online before you go. Drink water first thing in the morning and after each meal to hydrate. To lower stress, do something you enjoy daily like reading, writing or prayer. To wake up rested, go to sleep at the same time each night.

You may like to set aside one day a week where you have a 45 minute meeting with yourself to review last week’s efforts and plan out the coming week. This is how a system works compared to leaving your intentions of getting healthy to your mood or busy schedule. Doing things this way will establish a life-long pattern.

In other words, you will need to make a HABIT of doing what you need to do. We all rise to the level of our habits. Going back to the idea of getting healthy, we need to have confidence that we can do it regardless of our age or busy life. We need an action plan that takes on the shape of a system that we are in the habit of doing.

You might be thinking that everything so far sounds logical, but the challenge is in forming a repeatable habit that sticks. I could not agree with you more.

The best idea I came across to form a habit is twofold: start it as though your life depends on it and create the right environment for executing the habit. Back to getting healthy, remind yourself that being healthy is critical to having a productive life and remove all the potato chips, chocolate and muffins from your house, so you don't get tempted to eat the junk!

So, do you have enough CASH?

Confidence

Actions

Systems

Habits

Why not incorporate this framework for success and let us know how you do.

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How To Motivate Yourself To Be Successful

By Ahsan

“All the world loves a winner who is at once a hero and a role model”- Shazad Ahmad

In this day and age, successful people are written about, documentaries are made showing their genius, penetrating interviews are conducted, and many consider them to be living legends. Who comes to mind for you? Is it Michael Jordan? Steve Jobs? Warren Buffet? Sir Paul McCartney? Dr. Abdus Salam?

The aim of every book, documentary, and interview always attempts to uncover the "secret" behind their success. You may think that their morning routine is the key, you may be led to believe that their level of motivation is the thing or even the environment in which they grew up… wealthy, poor, privileged, single parented, supportive, abusive, Ivy League Schools, self-taught or any other apparent environmental factor.

What if I told you that the key ingredient was not what seems obvious and is rarely uncovered in "the book" or "movie" and….it's available to you if you but knew!

What might that secret component of success be?

Well, stick around for another moment, and I will reveal it to you.

A very famous basketball coach was asked how he motivated his team to success and win so many championships. I recall it was John Wooden and to paraphrase, he said something to the effect that he did not get his players to work hard; instead, he got them to want to work hard.

This, my friend, is the secret ingredient.

Prove it to yourself for a moment. Anything that you have achieved with the extraordinary effect is because you wanted it and you did not mind working hard to get it. You wanted to work hard for it.

There is a world of difference with a student who is being lectured by his father to work hard to get better grades and the student who wants to work hard to get the best grades possible out of personal desire.

Motivation often assumes possessing an iron will. Willpower is not limited, we just need to top it up now and then with a powerful desire to want to work towards a meaningful goal.

I contend that Michael, Steve, Warren, Paul and Abdus, all wanted to work hard towards their goals in life, and that was all the difference.

Where there’s a will, there’s a way, especially if you want to work hard for its attainment.

Here then is your mission if you choose to accept it:

Write down 3 major goals you have that you know will improve your personal or professional life.

Think of your reasons WHY you want to achieve them.

Start formulating an action plan for Goal 1

Start formulating an action plan for Goal 2

Start formulating an action plan for Goal 3

Give yourself a deadline for the attainment of each goal.

Work hard to achieve your goals a bit each and every day, not because it is something you should do, instead, because you want to work hard!

Working hard does not guarantee success, nor does it improve your chances of success as most think. Willpower does not count as much either. It is the inner-created wanting to work hard that will matter most at the end of the day.

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The R.A.W. Formula for Success

By Shazad

READING and WRITING on a regular basis makes you smarter - that should be no surprise to anyone.  The missing part in most people’s lives is the part in the middle and starts with an “A” which refers to APPLYING.  You must APPLY the things you learn by reading to test out those ideas. This is the only way to see how they can benefit us in our lives.  

Once we find something valuable to start doing, we need to DOCUMENT our experiences through the written word. That’s where WRITING comes into place and it’s what we must all become better at. Long-form, short-form, informal style, and proper English sentences - they all matter. So now you know the simple R.A.W. formula to be a more successful human: Read - Apply - Write. Keep doing this on a consistent basis to become Awesome.

Don't Try to Be Someone Else

By Shazad

In today’s world, there are a lot of celebrities in sports, business and showbiz. Many people are trying to be the next version of Michael Jordan, Steve Jobs or Tom Cruise and many other famous people. The problem is that we can never become someone else no matter how hard we try. The world does not really want us to become someone else, despite what we see on the media. We need more individuals who are great in their own way.

We all admire family members like our siblings, cousins and even our parents but we should not try to be another version of them, despite how much respect we have for them. They don’t truly want or need us to become who they are. We have our own life experiences and thoughts and we are presented with the ability to take our life to a new level of success that perhaps they could not so it is not correct to imitate them in every way.

It’s likely we will take some inspiration from some of the great people of our time or the past and incorporate something from their practices or habits but we should never try to become that other person. Our main goal should be to become the very best individual we can be and realize we are one of a kind. We should strive to be the Next Great Human Being in our area of expertise or skill. That is far more important than an imitation of someone else. Don’t lose the precious thing that only you have which is a unique life experience like no other.

Becoming the most Awesome YOU is what the world needs more of so create your own legendary life that inspires others to want to become their best. This is how we make the whole world step up to truly live as the best person each person can possibly be.

How To Have More In Every Area Of Your Life

By Ahsan

No matter where you are in life, you could do better. I say this because our very existence is evidence of this. The evolution of our universe, planet, species and knowledge is all an example.

That said, you have the right to stay where you are and do nothing more.

For the curious and ambitious reader of our blog, two ideas may and should help you to have more in every area of your life.

The first idea is related to your skills and the second idea is connected to your outlook.

As for skills, we are good at certain things and not so good at other things. The common problem we experience with our capabilities is that we focus too much on making our weak skills strong when we should do the opposite.

Don’t spend your time and your life trying to get good at things you are not good at. You will only get frustrated and probably improve insignificantly. On the other hand, if you focus on the strong skills that you are good at, you could experience greater mastery and unparalleled levels of confidence.

For example, if you are good at selling and weak in administration, you could do far better in your career of sales if you master the skill of sales and persuasion and delegate your paperwork to an assistant. To improve on your natural ability of selling, you might attend courses on sales methods or read books on marketing or take online courses in persuasive writing.

The trick from there like always is to act.

Get out there in the field, see the people and sell your product or service. Get rejected, handle objections and make some rain.

The second idea to have more in every area of your life is to have a vision of your future. Obviously, your vision should be of a positive future. See yourself doing well, being happy and achieving your goals.

Whenever you see things positively, your brain will frame your experiences and add meaning to those situations in a way that will confirm your outlook. For example, when you meet someone, it will feel like that person was sent to you at the right time to help you reach your vision. Likewise, when you face a setback, you will see the situation positively as a necessary lesson to be learned, rather than a stroke of bad luck.

Conclusion: If you want to make a real mess of your life, focus on your weaknesses, see only obstacles in the way of your dreams and ruminate. You might even know some people that do this. My guess is that they have less in every area of their life.

And there you have it. To have more is the natural way of things and to do it, you need to do just two things:

1) Focus on the fundamental skills that you excel at. Leave your weaknesses to the wayside. Get good at one or two things. Reap the benefits.

2) Have a grand vision of your future: full of lollipops, gumdrops and Unicorns. Don’t get bogged down by dimly lit images about tomorrow. Gosh, that isn’t helpful!

3) Here is the BONUS item I almost forgot to mention: ACT. You must act!