By Ahsan

People who are successful in life are very confident in themselves. They seem to have a lot of courage, and we all admire that in a person because it is a rare quality.

Oddly, however, if you asked people to comment on how confident they are, most people would reply "very," giving the impression that everyone is so confident!

So what can you do if you feel less confident and need a boost of confidence?

Even more important, what should you do if you somehow lose your Mojo?

First, it might be necessary to answer the critical reason we dare not when we should. Why do we doubt ourselves or hesitate when the moment of truth dawns and an opportunity to shine in our own eyes pop up?

The answer to our dilemma is we all, and I mean all have moments of fear and doubt. When this happens, we come up with excuses that easily convince us to stay safe.

So here are two things that can help you and me to have more self-confidence.

Do what you fear or doubt you can’t do. It’s better to do it. Just use the same inner conversation to say “no guts, no glory” or remind yourself that ships are safe in the harbour, but ships were meant to sail.

So there you are. Talk back to yourself and say, "I will do it," and be firm with yourself.

Now that you have done it, you should measure your self-confidence on your meter of level 1 to level 10. After doing the thing you fear, you may notice that it was not so hard, and your self-confidence meter will move more towards a 10.

So, the next time you feel hesitant to do something that requires self-confidence, you should do it because it is you that will feel the glory as you sail towards a better destination.

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